7 Mistakes to avoid when trying to get your Ex Back

Shockingly, the vast majority of what men naturally do after a breakup actually ensures they will never get back together with their ex girlfriend.

Does this sound like you?

1. Acting depressed so your ex girlfriend will feel bad for you and want you back out of pity?

2. Generally being overly nice and telling your girlfriend you love her over and over again?

3. Telling your girlfriend you will change and that things will be different next time?

4. Buying her gifts, flowers or anything of that nature?

5. Using phony, manipulative trickery such as money, kids and guilt to almost bribe your ex girlfriend back to you?

6. Futilely trying to reason, argue and use logic to persuade your ex girlfriend to come back to you? (hint: women make decisions based on emotion and not logic - I will show you how to leverage her emotions)

7. Doing absolutely nothing and shutting her out of your life completely?

It's hard to believe, but all of the above will only further push your ex girlfriend away from you. What actually works seems very counter-productive but I assure you it is based on deep rooted female psychology. I'm talking about the stuff that makes her tick. The stuff she has absolutely no control over. It's how she is biologically programmed to behave.

How to Initiate Contact with your Ex

The first things is to make sure you give her some space to start missing you. She needs to see what life is like a little bit without you in it. This only needs to be a week or two depending on how often you normally see her.

When it's time to make contact again, just make sure that you aren't coming from a place of desperation. You want her to see that you can survive without her. When she first met you, you didn't need her. She wants to see that man again It's a chance for you to reset the clock.

So instead of being sad and bringing up all of the good times. You want to ask her out like it's the very first time. Be strong and confident. Make eye contact. Act like you would be shocked if she didn't want to go out with you again. This position of strength will draw her into your world.

Remember, she likes you. You are a really great guy with plenty of personality. So get out there and go for it!!!

How to Get Your Girlfriend Back

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