Pick Up Lines That Actually Work

There are 5 types of pick up lines every man needs to know about before he heads out to a bar or club to meet women.  Knowing the right way to start a conversation is crucial.  How is a woman going to meet your amazing personality if you can't get through the door?

The Direct Approach

This is the most powerful but also the most risky.  It's the equivalent of going all-in when you're playing poker.  The important thing with this opener is that you need to have zero hesitation.  The moment you feel that kick in your chest you have to act.  You see a beautiful woman and you act on your emotions.  That's the type of man who uses this approach.

The Extremely Indirect Approach

This is the opposite approach to the direct approach.  With this pua opener you say something so far from a pickup line, that she will say something to you.  This is the most low reward of all possible conversation starters.  Most likely she will answer your question and simply walk away.  You transmit no information to her.  She has no idea that you might be interested or interesting.  Yet this is one of the most common approaches I see guys do in club after club.

The Indirect Approach

This approach is very popular among pickup artists and guys new to the dating scene.  When used properly it is extremely popular.  It is the bread and butter of mystery method and many other similar styles of pickup.  The idea here is to say something that it's so intriguing that it takes her attention away from the fact that your a stranger and instead makes her and her friends focus on the question you ask.  So the test for if a question is a good indirect opener is if girls pay more attention to that then the fact that you are a stranger.

The Situational Approach

Now we are talking about something extremely powerful, simply because it cannot be memorized.  The power of this approach is that you are reacting to your environment.  You have to be quick on your feet to think of something good to say.  I will give you some powerful examples here so that you can see how they work.  This is a more advanced type of pua opener, but if you can learn to think this way you will really change your life. 

Final Thoughts on Pick Up Lines

They don't have to be hard or complex.  Starting a conversation is only a big deal if you make it a big deal.  What you really want to do is just relax and let your pua openers flow.  As soon as that happens, conversations will come easily and often.  As you know starting the conversation is just the beginning.

For more detailed explanations and examples of each of these types of pick up lines head over to OrganicSeduction.com

The Power of Going it Alone

There are 5 reasons why every pickup artist should go to a bar alone to meet women.

1. You are forced to go out of your shell.  You either stand there in silence or you talk to strangers.

2.  People are more likely to approach you.  Groups are intimidating but when someone is alone it is a lot easier and less scary to walk up to them.

3.  Going out in a pack of guys actually makes you look weak.  It just looks like a group of guys who are afraid to hunt alone.

4.  Going out alone makes you look confident and will help you to grow your confidence.

5.  When you go out in a group you are very likely to just stand there in a circle talking to your friends while not taking action.  Your friends actually become an impediment to your success.

 

7 Mistakes to avoid when trying to get your Ex Back

Shockingly, the vast majority of what men naturally do after a breakup actually ensures they will never get back together with their ex girlfriend.

Does this sound like you?

1. Acting depressed so your ex girlfriend will feel bad for you and want you back out of pity?

2. Generally being overly nice and telling your girlfriend you love her over and over again?

3. Telling your girlfriend you will change and that things will be different next time?

4. Buying her gifts, flowers or anything of that nature?

5. Using phony, manipulative trickery such as money, kids and guilt to almost bribe your ex girlfriend back to you?

6. Futilely trying to reason, argue and use logic to persuade your ex girlfriend to come back to you? (hint: women make decisions based on emotion and not logic - I will show you how to leverage her emotions)

7. Doing absolutely nothing and shutting her out of your life completely?

It's hard to believe, but all of the above will only further push your ex girlfriend away from you. What actually works seems very counter-productive but I assure you it is based on deep rooted female psychology. I'm talking about the stuff that makes her tick. The stuff she has absolutely no control over. It's how she is biologically programmed to behave.

How to Initiate Contact with your Ex

The first things is to make sure you give her some space to start missing you. She needs to see what life is like a little bit without you in it. This only needs to be a week or two depending on how often you normally see her.

When it's time to make contact again, just make sure that you aren't coming from a place of desperation. You want her to see that you can survive without her. When she first met you, you didn't need her. She wants to see that man again It's a chance for you to reset the clock.

So instead of being sad and bringing up all of the good times. You want to ask her out like it's the very first time. Be strong and confident. Make eye contact. Act like you would be shocked if she didn't want to go out with you again. This position of strength will draw her into your world.

Remember, she likes you. You are a really great guy with plenty of personality. So get out there and go for it!!!

How to Get Your Girlfriend Back

There are so many products out there that claim to help you to get your girlfriend back. I had problems for a long time until I read this book. It really explained all of the things that I thought I would never understand. Sometimes it just seems so hard to understand women.

If you want to get her back or even get a new beautiful woman in your life, I can't recommend this book enough. It makes it simple.

What do you do if your girlfriends stops texting you back, stops laughing at your jokes, stops having sex with you....

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